In a binder of her research and speculation my mother puts to paper the answer she has come up with as to why her maternal grandmother, Susan, was so estranged from Susan's daughter, my grandmother, Ruth, that she refused to attend her wedding. And apparently became a "ghost" to the family throughout much of Mom's childhood, though she visited from time-to-time and died at the Walker's windy hilltop home in 1944.
Before her 1916 marriage to a teacher (and future dairyman, farmers' cooperative leader, legislator, UVM board member, etc.) William Walker, Jr., Ruth was working as a teacher in the Northeast Kingdom and sending her wages, all but 50 cents a week (the cost of her room and board), back home. (Women teachers probably earned less than $100 per month at this time.) It was this loss of family income that lead to the split, according to Betty's best knowledge.
A century's perspective gives context to great-grandmother Susan's parsimony. In 1900, Susan's husband, my great-grandfather, Forest Duke, was a laborer, in 1910 a carpenter-farmer on a mortgaged farm. In 1920, Susan was divorced with 3 kids, still at home on the same mortgaged farm. Great-grandpa Duke removed to south of the border and established a new family.
Before her 1916 marriage to a teacher (and future dairyman, farmers' cooperative leader, legislator, UVM board member, etc.) William Walker, Jr., Ruth was working as a teacher in the Northeast Kingdom and sending her wages, all but 50 cents a week (the cost of her room and board), back home. (Women teachers probably earned less than $100 per month at this time.) It was this loss of family income that lead to the split, according to Betty's best knowledge.
A century's perspective gives context to great-grandmother Susan's parsimony. In 1900, Susan's husband, my great-grandfather, Forest Duke, was a laborer, in 1910 a carpenter-farmer on a mortgaged farm. In 1920, Susan was divorced with 3 kids, still at home on the same mortgaged farm. Great-grandpa Duke removed to south of the border and established a new family.
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